Do you seem doomed to be unlucky in love? Do you constantly choose the wrong person? Is it just bad luck, bad taste or are you stuck in karmic loop? It may be all of those things, but it is also possible that you are responding to a pattern of behavior that is part of your character makeup. This is an outcome of dysfunction in your childhood.
There is a metaphysical teaching that prescribes “Complete or repeat” What this means is that your soul is trying to learn a lesson and if you don’t learn the lesson or complete the cycle, you are doomed to repeat the lesson until you get it right This may be happening to you if you find yourself in similar romantic circumstances time and again.
Learn how to love yourself.
The next time you are shaking your head over an unfaithful partner, ask yourself if you are settling. Do you keep returning to this type of relationship because you don’t think you deserve better?
Tell yourself that you are worth love and care and only deserve the best. Identify the problem and work on the solution. This may be what you need to break yourself out of the pattern.
Find ways to love yourself such as:
- Smile more.
- Get a new hobby.
- Take a class.
- Find a new job.
- Volunteer your time.
- Make new friends.
- Visit family.
- Chant.
- Journal your feelings.
- Support groups.
- Psychologists.
- Meditation.