Breaking up will be painful no matter how or who does it. Healing a broken heart isn’t a quick fix but there are things that you can do that can help you to move on. This will be a new journey for you where you are without your partner.
You must first accept that the breakup happened and accept that things are beyond fixing. This is the first stage of grieving that you will have. It’s not a good idea to talk to your ex during this time and even if you have the desire to talk to them, the best thing is that you wait at least 30 days. Otherwise, talking to them will bring back pain into your life.
Listen to what your heart and your intuition tells you and accept what happened and move on with your life. Allow your emotions to come out and if you feel the need to cry, scream or whatever emotions creep in, do it.
Finding Answers
You might want to know why the relationship ended the way that it did. You might blame yourself or your ex but know that it takes two to make a relationship work. Don’t put yourself through feelings of guilt because this is going to be unfair to you in the long run. You must forgive yourself and your ex.
Live a Healthy Life
Start living your best life. Do things that are healthy for you such as eating right and exercising. This can make you feel better, and it increases dopamine which can reduce depression and make you feel better.
Try Again
When you decide that you are ready to start dating again, do it. Find things to do that make you feel happy such as picking up a new hobby, going out with people that you love, trying a new spiritual journey or whatever gives you peace. Be active in your life and know that you can reach whatever you are searching for.
Patience
Have patience in this time of healing. It will take time to get over your broken relationship, but you can do that. There will be times where you feel that you aren’t getting anywhere in your emotions, but you are. Don’t give up hope. Know that time heals things. You will see that you feel better each and every day.
Changes
There will be many things that change throughout the course of your breakup. You need to face these things head on and learn to be positive. The universe can bring you someone new in your life, just stay open and kind in your heart.